here we are again


I haven’t stopped in to mention my progress with the weight loss program in a while. There is a reason for that, mostly I am very busy, but also I haven’t really felt very inspiring in the matter. I think as women, we are really hard on ourselves when it comes to body image. It really is awful the way we view our bodies, esp after taking part in the blessing of bringing a baby into the world. I mean, think about it…we are co-creators of a brand new life. Our bodies have the ability to do that and it is nothing less than a miracle. Everytime I look at my babes, I am in awe of how lucky I am to have them. Yes…that miracle does leave behind a bit of a mess to clean up (smile), and I know that I have been less than patient in my endevour do so.

I have had my ups and downs, and one too many “I’ll have just 1 cookie” episodes, but I am happy to say that I am still working toward it. In fact, my new motto is that “I am not giving up…I am just giving in. I am giving in to the fact that I am only human (not some crazy workout momma with no appetite and a need for no more than 1200 cal a day). I realize that it takes more time than I was really hoping to give to lose this weight & it takes less wieght loss to get me back to where I need to be. 20 pounds is a little ridiculous (less than I weighed in High School) and I am reassigning myself a more realistic goal. I am thankful for the way my body has changed from the 3 pregnancies I have been so blessed with and am working hard to feel healthy and strong enough to chase after those little girls! So heres to a fresh day and a little better insight into what it really means to me to be healthy and in shape.

(Shabby Princess Wild love & paper flowers, little pretty studio swank labels)

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Becky & Joseph - July 30, 2007 - 4:59 pm

Tonya, you could be nothing but beautiful. You always were gorgeous, and your “baby love” has made you even more gorgeous still, I’m sure, because of what it meant to bring those little angels into your home. Women ARE too hard on themselves, but it’s in part thanks to stupid ads that try to tell us what beauty is, and it makes me so angry. I’m just as guilty as the next girl about it, though! I agree that we all need to learn to love ourselves a little more for who we are, not what we always wish we were. Thanks for the good reminder of that.

britty - July 30, 2007 - 11:54 pm

i feel your pain. baby weight messes with your mind. you are so right to stay focused on the little miracles. i am in a better mood just reading your post and knowing we share the same struggle to stay positive about our bodies. and please, 20 pounds, i’m glad you’re re-evaluating that one!

andrea danielle - July 31, 2007 - 2:16 am

OMG, you are gorgeous! I know how it is to have that lingering baby weight. I gained 60 lbs with both of my boys, and only 30lbs fell off. I ran a marathon after my first baby and managed to lose 20 of those lbs, but I was in my pre-pregancy size….remember…muscle weighs more that fat! I became pregant one month after the marathon…gained another 60…lost 30…then lost 20…then gained back 20, and now I working out like a dog and can’t lose a lb. Although, I am determined to lose weight, I am being more realistic. I don’t have to look like hollywood, but I just want to look healthy, and get my face back, whatever weight that may be! Also, thanks for posting the tutorial for the digi scrapping…that was so sweet and helpful!

~love - July 31, 2007 - 8:56 pm

totally feel ya, tonya! =)

you’re doing great!!

Amelia - August 1, 2007 - 1:47 am

Tonya~

Judging from your pictures I have to say….”Where would you lose 20 lbs?????” You look really good! Getting in shape with excerise is awesome, but I am thrilled to hear you are not stressing over it and not putting unhealthy expectations on yourself.

You are a gorgeous woman and it’s my opinion from your blog and sweet comments that you are also a jewel inside as well. Just keep up the good work and reward yourself with a cookie if you need one….sometimes it takes a little sugar to get through a day of 3 kiddos…I know!

Amelia

chriskauf - August 1, 2007 - 7:01 am

You look great, don’t be to hard on yourself, but what are you doing , this past year has been my worst for neglecting myself, I need to put myself on the list of people to take care, of, however , I would love to go for a brisk walk or jog, but the kids are too little yet to leave in the house alone, I think 1 more year and I can get out for a little me time, jaunt around the block , like before I had the kids…but with walkie talkies for constant checking in…

all things lululux - August 2, 2007 - 12:05 pm

I’m working on that too. Its not easy, especially with 4 and the stinky part of it is that only you can make it happen. Thats where I get stuck.

Organization is definetly needed with me. Working on that too. :)

Gena - August 3, 2007 - 12:21 am

You are B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L! Love you.

Erin - August 12, 2007 - 10:38 pm

You are so beautiful and I have no clue where you would lose 20 pounds from!!!

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